Tips If You Want Confidence

Tips If You Want Confidence


If many of us buy expensive items and luxurious, call it expensive handbags, expensive cars, expensive shoes, expensive and even have a home in the upscale area, then a million reasons to be given, if you ask why they bought it, I certainly believe there just saying that it will add confidence.

I was one victim of such thinking. With all due respect and gratitude - because I actually have great respect and gratitude - to God the Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth and the creatures in it, I was born with a simple physical and mediocre. Small, thin, and ... life, it said my friend.

Handsome? That does not herlaku for me. Oops ... compared with other men, I do not count. If we let a race, want to enter semi-finals are maybe I should have katebelece. Even if there are 100 or even 500 men terganteng, I too will not enter into it. 499 numbers are still far away it seems.

Because I am far from a figure such as Marcellino Lefrand or Ari Wibowo, even Tora Sudiro, then in the course of this life I never had a period of no confidence. First I never thought this would happen. And when that happens and I realize, this heart could not accept. Pendeklah Kok, kok jeleklah, why this, why that, and so on and so forth.

If I do not how the physical, financial situation and my career may be said fairly. With the situation, I began to recognize the delicious can buy expensive items, ranging from the bag, and shoes, and clothes. My itinerary across the continent also adds to my confidence. Just imagine, a man who had been mediocre, not physical at all interesting, all of a sudden can fly to and fro, to buy an Armani suit, and John Lobb shoes.

Such as drug

All of that makes me then feel expensive items are the means that I can continue to feel the presence of self-confidence. It must be admitted that the situation is very enjoyable challenge. At that time I herterima love in this world there are designer goods. Goods that I dismissed it helps, at least, my sadness as a physical human being is born mediocre, not even a geregetnya, for a moment felt happy to be able to make people look to me that I did not get from the state of birth.

Finally, I often run away into hiding, and embrace expensive items as a weapon to impress others, to receive the respect of others and to be recognized.

All of it like a drug. Like I no longer able to trust my abilities as a human being, but instead hung it on Harang's belongings. I do not even try dazzling people with my personality, but by thrusting the goods before them. I was happy to talk about people because of the stuff than I do with a brain a little watery.

With a revolving and maturity of the soul, now I think how could I trust myself with the help of inanimate objects that? How could I look for confidence behind the logos of the expensive stuff? How could my confidence just for the expensive stuff?

That's not confidence that I got, it's just an insatiable ego that makes me even tend to be arrogant. And when I feel I have confidence with inanimate objects is expensive, then I'm just really in a state of no confidence. That's a false sense of confidence.

I'm not going to stop buying expensive things because I honestly could not stop spellbound. But, now I know, I bought just for the sheer pleasure ego, instead of buying because I seek refuge. To my knowledge, too, a boutique named Prada, Dior, and other names just to sell bags, clothes, and shoes. In the window they were never written, here selling French-made self-confidence.

Tips If You Want Confidence

A. Realize from the beginning that word confident means you believe it yourself. Self-confidence does not mean believing in an object, a logo, or a brand, but you point. So, if you believe in yourself that will be improved, which should increase your class, you improved it, not inanimate objects, it's expensive and luxurious. That name was not confident, but believes inanimate objects.

2. Want to add confidence can not only with mere outward circumstances. Especially if like me outward. Your head should also be filled with various kinds of knowledge and information. Even if you can blurted out in seven languages-outside-the local language, but what you are talking only about diamonds and dissect the contents of People magazine, you should not have pride in advance.

3. Mingle. Socialize as wide as possible, not as much as possible. Extensive that means you hang out in various circles, without any prejudices and restrictions of any sort. All walks of life has its own uniqueness. You will be more open with people who try to dive into this farrago circles. No need lots of you know, it'll even be a social gathering.

4. Do not get used to hide behind others to be confident. If you really only know her sister Titi DJ, just say, "Oh I know as Samuel tuh." Needless to say, "Oh I know at his sister Titi DJ." What do you know Samuel, sister Titi DJ. You do not know Titi DJ, right? So do not make people assume you are familiar with Titi DJ association as if you are so great.

Or one day you invite your friends to go and he happened to know Dian Sastro and take him along. When asked what you did yesterday, you said just go to Ancol. Needless to say, "Yesterday I Dian Sastro equal to Ancol." The Dian and took her to know that your friends and not you. Okay?

5. Get used to being personally modest, humble, and do not need petantang-petenteng. Confidence was not meaning you disclose your personal greatness. Remember the adage that says, growing rice contains more ducking it.

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