Various kinds of Human Character
There was a lot of character, there are friendly, there is a quiet, nobody likes to find the problem, there is a calm, and there is also a bitch. Where's the human characters were, how many personality types, and most importantly, whether a person's character can be changed?
Three wise monkeys, not heard, not seen, and not talking
CHARACTER OF ORIGIN
There are two theories about the origins of this character. The first theory says that the character is like our genes, it is innate, such as hair color and blood type. That is, if today we have a bitchy character that's because we've had since birth. While another theory says that human character is formed through a lifelong process through interaction with others and the environment.
I do not choose one of the two theories above, because both are true. For me, where the origin of the character is not important when compared to what we should do this ourselves. How can we know ourselves, know others, and build relationships with them. Knowing our strengths and weaknesses of our character.
From the experience of my life, the human personality grows as family upbringing and the influence of friends. The biggest part that affects the development of personality lies in who he spends most of his time and to whom he had faith. People who are believed to have the greatest opportunity to shape and influence a person's character perekembangan. The name alone trust other people, then there we will open ourselves to him and idolize indirectly. People can trust your family, playmates, or people we admire. Being a trustworthy person is nice, but also gave rise to responsibility.
Male character is fully formed when the age of thirty. That is, at that age are very difficult to change his personality. Because he has felt a lot of acid-salt meal so understand everything. What about the female characters? When he formed? I will answer honestly that I do not know .... he ... he ... he .... because I am a man. So please see other websites that are written by women. Loh .... sir ... pack .... character heck the guy can not be changed after the age of thirties? We will discuss later, so saabaaaar yaaaa.
KIND OF CHARACTER
There are many theories about the kind of - kind of character. The most famous is the Galen theory that divides human personality into four, namely Sanguin, Kolerik, Melancholy, and Phlegmatis.
Sanguinists personality has great energy, fun-loving, and sociable. They like to seek attention, attention, affection, support, and acceptance of those around him. People like to start a conversation sanguin type and a friend to everyone. These people are usually optimistic and always fun. However, it is irregular, emotional, and very sensitive to what people say against him. In relationships, people sanguin often known as "the talker".
Personality Kolerikberorientasi on target. Activity devoted to excel, lead, and organize. Choleric type of people demanding the loyalty and respect of others, trying to control and expect recognition of his achievement, and the like to be challenged and will accept difficult assignments. But they also like to feel completely alone, like an addiction if you do something, stubborn, and insensitive to the feelings of others. Choleric people like this are often identified as "the executor".
Melancholy personalities tend to be quiet and thoughtful. He tried to pursue the perfection of what he thinks is important. People in these types need space and quiet so they can think and do something. Melancholic type of person task-oriented, very careful, a perfectionist, and like regularity. Therefore, people are often disappointed and depressed melanklolis what to expect if not perfect. Melancholy man is frequently identified as a "perfectionist" or "the thinker".
Personality Phlegmatis balanced, stable, self-sufficient to feel, and do not feel the need to change the world. He also did not like the trivia question, do not like risk or challenge, and it takes time to deal with change. These type of people lack discipline and motivation so that procrastination thing. Sometimes, he viewed others as slow. Not that he is less intelligent, but because he was more intelligent than others. Phlegmatis people do not like crowds or a lot of talk. However, he is resourceful and able to say the right words at the right time, making it suitable to be a negotiator. Phlegmatis people sometimes identified as "the observer" or "the sweet".
THEORY OF PERSONALITY Hartman
At first, I often use the term sanguin, melancholy, kholerik, and phlegmatis above. But after knowing the personality theory of the creation of Taylor Hartman, Phd. This, then I started to leave the Galen theory of personality. Why? Well, because like aja, no other purpose.
Hartman divide the human characters based on his motives. Motive is what differentiates people from one another. Hartman made four main motive, namely: power, intimacy, joy, and peace. In his book, The Color Code, the motive power is symbolized by the red color, intimacy with blue, with white peace, and joy in yellow. I myself after following personality tests Hartman turns blue. This means that the basic motive for my behavior is intimacy (suitable deeh he ... he .. he ...) Want to try to take personality tests Hartman? It's free, please visit www.colorcode.com and select the Personality Test. (Please use Google Translate to translate the test is in Indonesian)
The red power users, this personality type are very committed to the goal, persistent, and often successful. The Red looking for action and results. They are hungry for productivity. In short, the character of this type makes all things finished. Red personalities are always looking ahead (so visionary loh) making it suitable to be a leader. In addition, the red tends to be insensitive alias cold anger in their hearts but still look amazing calm.
Blue the doers, the personality itself on this one represents the good qualities that we value, like honesty, empathy, self-sacrifice, loyalty, sincerity, and self-discipline. The blue seems endowed with these qualities naturally. They appreciate the creativity, commitment in relationships, and achievement in the discipline. They are very committed, incredibly loyal, and a member of polite society. They are very firm stance and faced a tough competitor for any personality, because in essence they base all opinions on the emotional and moral principle. Human personality is like a blue-edged sword emotionally. In poitif side, they are givers and sympathetic. On the negative side, they can be unforgiving and very sensitive. The most characteristic of this personality is menojol depression. Blue is the repository of depression (tuuuul. .....!).
White's peacekeepers, the character of white people are very diligent in finding ways to encourage cooperation, regardless of price. They appreciate the nature of human cooperation and continue to strive to achieve peaceful coexistence among all living things. White is often powerless, inviting people to help and protect them in life. They may terngantung on others to make their lives happen. White is the people who are satisfied, they like the water that passes through and around the difficulties of life, instead of demanding that the obstacles in front of them moved. They are really personal that can look at all the problem well.
The fun-loving yellow, yellow character is very much in love lives. They Greenworld mental properties that allow them to appreciate what they have. They are often very focused on the self (self-centered soft language ^ - ^ '). Yellow is cheerful personality makes it easy to get along with everyone and brighten their lives. Often they are a popular and charismatic. Behind the cheerful nature, the character of the individual turns yellow it is sloppy and messy. Which makes it look worse is the nature of the wind-anginanya, sometimes yes and sometimes not depending on where the wind blows ....
CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT
Well, now the question is, where the best personality, which is the most bad character? Here we must add the words in our vocabulary today. Although people are born with all the skills and excellence of character, but if the nature and behavior as children age five years, could this so-called good? And vice versa, without the advantage of character but is able to behave wisely, can say ugly? I love the one of mass media advertising. Writing like this, "Growing old is for sure, become an adult? Not Sure! "
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